alone

"You must learn to be alone and happy before you can be together with someone else and be happy. Your happiness only and always depends upon how you feel when you are alone, never how you think you will feel when you are with someone else. Healthy love relationships require that you be strong enough to resist rushing to your next relationship before all the hurts of the past are healed. Healing takes time. Doing healing alone or with the assistance of a skilled professional, will always get you where you want to go much quicker.

Be alone in the short term for the extraordinary long term benefits. Learn what it takes to be in a healthy relationship with yourself. When you get comfortable with being alone; when the feeling that you must be in a relationship to feel complete disappears, most likely you will be ready for another relationship. The path to a healthy love relationship becomes more clear when you put your own well being ahead of having to be in a relationship to feel good about yourself. "

As I was checking my FS account.. I saw this in one of my friends bulletin and I decided to post it here to share it with you guys (kunware me readers ako.. haha!). It struck something in me because I believe that some 'alone time' will definitely help... to realize many things.

To see the world in your own two eyes, savor the ‘no rush’ feeling and the independence.

It’s also time to appreciate what you have; those which you took for granted and miss what you have to let go to have your so called alone time... Believe that the alone time will help you heal and be whole again before embracing the future. Ü